Abuse and Neglect

ABUSE AND NEGLECT

Abuse and neglect of older or vulnerable persons is not a new problem. Although present for many years in our society, it has existed in relative silence, denial and isolation. It is not usually talked about and difficult to solve unless people recognize the abuse and let someone know it is happening. Many acts of abuse are crimes. Abuse can happen to any person, but certain factors can increase vulnerability. These include mental or physical impairment and / or cultural or language barriers. Abused, older or vulnerable persons are often socially isolated with few family or friends in whom to confide. Abusers are often people who depend on the victim for shelter or financial support and may include: family members, neighbours, hired caregivers, friends or strangers. Abuse and neglect can happen anywhere, including your home or institutions like long term care facilities and retirement homes.

TYPES OF ABUSE OR NEGLECT

Physical – Includes slapping, hitting, shaking, punching, or other rough contact. As well sexual assault or any form of unwanted touching. Finally forced confinement to a room, a bed or chair.

Financial – Includes frauds, forgery, thefts or the dishonest use of a person’s money or assets. As well a misuse of Power of Attorney or forcing someone to sign a will. Finally overcharging or high-pressure sales of a service or a product.

Psychological – Includes humiliating, threatening, or frightening an older or vulnerable person. As well not allowing an older or vulnerable person to make decisions or deliberate social isolation. Finally it can also be ignoring or talking to them like they are a child.

Neglect – Includes failing to give someone who is dependent of what he or she needs. Also over / under medication dosage. Finally abandonment or leaving someone in an unsafe or isolated place.

Self-Neglect – Is the inability of an older or vulnerable person to adequately take care of themselves.

WHY ARE ABUSE AND NEGLECT SELDOM REPORTED?

Victims don’t always know their rights or what can be done. As well they think police or other agencies can’t help them. Others might not be able to speak English. In some cases the person may be afraid of what the abuser will do to them if they report the abuse, or they are afraid they will be placed in an institution. The victim may also feel ashamed because of what their family member or caregiver is doing to them, or they are simply embarrassed that they were taken advantage of.

SIGNS OF POSSIBLE ABUSE OR NEGLECT:

· Unexplained injuries or a history of “accidents”, poor hygiene, or bed sores.

· Depression, fear, anxiety, withdrawal, or weight loss.

· Dehydration or lack of food, clothing, medicine, or other necessities of life.

· Unnecessary purchases or repairs to house property.

· Unexplained loss or misuse of property items such as banking records or wills.

· Unpaid bills.

WHAT CAN THE POLICE DO?

If you have been abused, or if you think someone else is being abused, call the police. This is a very important step in protecting yourself or those you may believe are in jeopardy. Experience shows us that when abuse is not identified and stopped, the level of abuse often increases. When calling the police you can remain anonymous. However, you may be asked for your name and phone number should more information need to be required. If you are still hesitant about calling and know someone who is being abused or neglected, you can remain completely anonymous by contacting Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-8477. The first responsibility of the police is to ensure everyone’s safety. A thorough investigation will be conducted which may include:

· A detailed (possibly videotaped) statement from the victim.

· If there is a language barrier, an interpreter will be provided.

· Photographs of any injuries or the scene.

· Statements from others who may have evidence: family, friends, neighbors.

· Medical reports, financial statements, or other relevant documentation.

· A background check of any past reports of abuse.

· An interview of others who may have knowledge of previous abuse incidents.

· Provide helpful advice and direction regarding quality of life issues.

Each investigation of abuse and neglect is assessed independently on its own merits. Often, alternative measures may be the most appropriate recourse. On the other hand, if evidence supports that a crime has occurred, charges may be laid. Depending on the circumstances the offender may be arrested and his/her release may be opposed. If the offender is held in custody he/she will receive a bail hearing before a Justice of the Peace. At that time bail may be denied or a release with or without conditions may be issued. You may have to testify in court, but there are a number of supports and services available to you. This may include: assistance from Seniors’ Support Officers, Victim Services, and Victim / Witness Programs.

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

· Whether you live in your own home, at a retirement home or Long Term Care Facility, know your rights; ask for advice if you think something is wrong.

· To minimize the risk for abuse, Stay Active, Stay Sociable, Maintain and increase your network of friends and acquaintances. New activities can bring new friends. Have regular contact with family and friends either by phone or visits at home. Have your own phone number and check your own mail.

· Be cautious about permitting adult children back into your home to live, especially if they have a past history of violence or substance abuse.

· Familiarize yourself with your spouse’s tasks to ensure your continued independence.

· Stay organized. Know where your important papers and financial records are. Inform trusted persons that you know where these are kept.

· Plan now for later. Get legal advice and make arrangements for Powers of Attorney, your Will or finances. Don’t let anyone keep the details of your finances from you.

· Find out what community resources are available to you in your area. Know who to call for assistance when you need personal care, housekeeping, groceries, Meals on Wheels, transportation etc.